"At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That's how we're made. So, you can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines."
- Grey's Anotomy; Meredith Grey
it's undeniable that boundaries don't keep things out, they embrace us in. As long as we are into the story with no expectations of what should gonna happen, only then when we are able to see the glory of what is happening.