10/2025

31/10

-Finally ended our two week Halloween deco and it's amazing how i can still create. Was anxious about it but by just showing up, you can definitely do something, anything. Also gone crazy liver-eater with small kids. It's draining but fun.

-payday but my salary went all to my rent, bills and payables. But found a 50 eur bill by the street, biggest bill I've picked so far.. i remember when i was 10 years old, i found 4, 20peso bills and i have it as a capital for candies and i had it as my business. Not much for a capital here in Europe but i hope it's a sign of financial breakthrough.

-reminisce about how i usually party in a club during Halloween but I'm not sure this time, i don't have the energy and the means.

30/10

-an early morning read: 

"We yearn for certainty and must make our peace with doubt, flickering and static" -alain de botton/school of life

http://youtube.com/post/UgkxGOythDGnP9hebpXFcvUVkM35ZHIdmeSy?si=K0b5FndMhksKKJFd

29/10

-something that i love about my current work today is that you don't have to prepare anything, you just have to show up.

-i still have my bureaucracy blow from my late prórroga yesterday and my dating issue here in Spanish but i keep on counting my blessings. Especially my constant visit from our house cat, Santi who  becomes my constant companion.

-the impending 400eur or more fine is really a horror, but i will simply let it go and think of the money i saved from Italy specially my stay in Italy farm for a month without any expenses.

-was already happy when chai wishes to send a scent she concocts for russ that reminds of that afternoon in busay, and russ wishes to accept it. But then chai, not pushing for it. I dunno. It feels being rammmed in the middle and i have no one to talk to, even vera since she is also not in good terms with chai. I dunno, i felt this jolt in my head, my heart and in my stomach. Then again, I was reminded that my current theme is suffering is my favorite past time. I simply laughed about it. But tbh, I'm at the point where i don't want to be in between (the bridge) anymore.

-saw the trailer of my love makes you disappear and i felt I'm too serious with my potential lovers. And then i said to myself, I'm no clown nor comic, so i don't want to fake it as well. I dunno.

28/10

-had this weird conversation with Pablo. I guess he is trying to be kind and me trying to be pushed over. I'd rather have it stop. It is getting toxic. On the other hand, jose Luis is not messaging. I was done with this phase, but it's resurfacing. Sigh.

-my happiness with empadronamiento was short live as i face again another paperwork, prórroga, which should have been submitted 90 days before my TIE expired. My tie expired May 30 2025, so I'm already late. But it's just now i had my empadron. I may face a penalty on this with a hefty fine. God forbid. Another series of suffering. Oh well, i think i simply need to give up and rewire my brain of retiring with this thought: i love suffering, it is my favorite past time. 

27/10

...But before anything else, celebrate at my favorite coffee shop and have my usual cafe doble con leche y croissant deliciouso at Sampedro.

-hopefully everything goes well from now on. I hope the universe heard my plea and will take it easy on me 🙏 ❤️ 🥰 

27/10

-Finally, empadronamiento myself successfully. My first ever after a year. Now I'm officially registered living here in Spain. Now I'm off for my TIE card renewal. But before anything else. Cont

26/10

-watched Wizard of Oz 1939, indeed it is a very heart warming and magical movie. One of the best movies of all time.

-It's really getting cold here in Collado Villalba. It rained last night and the temp went down low to 2'C

-went for a walk as i feel too heavy. Had some sunshine and savored the sunset. I went emotional as i felt I was again, at my lowest of low. Jokingly asked the universe not to be so harsh with the challenges I've been given. as i am having a deficit in terms of almost everything: love life, financial, and stability. I cried and prayed that breakthrough is on its way especially about having a sense of home.

25/10

-jose luis didn't respond, i feel so low and i know how this pattern of a feeling. I know what i must do: walk

-had a morning walk to valdemayor while listening to newly released bjork cornucopia in Spotify 

-cont watching wicked

-it rained a lot and was damp cold. Feeling sad and lonely. I simply tuck into my blanket and cont listen to 1Q84 audiobook. 

-I kinda feel what the dowager feels when she no longer has anger, but only sadness when she has finally murdered (let go) the main culprit. Also it resonates in me, Aomame's waiting for years and years to only experience,  a glimpse of ephemeral romance.

24/10

-meet Joana Paola at the station as she came to Collado Villalba for the first time.

-she treated me in my favorite tapa place and we walk to dehesa and listen to TS while watching the cow having a love triangle affair. Crazy

-supposed to meet jose Luis as he doesn't have class after work, but i ran out of load and only have enough money left for bus fair. Plus he didn't respond so i don't feel motivated ti really see him. As if i have to give up. But my manifestation is almost there. Maybe this is just one of those challenges. I hope this is the final challenge.

23/10

-created Halloween deco and listen to wicked sound track. Remembered my folgaria moments, and as if i summoned them, Tamera relive the GC. But Jack didn't responded nor msge me directly. 

22/10

-my landlady is out of town and i have the place for myself, i usually do sex invites, but this time. I didn't.

-for some reason, the love intentions keep me grounded. Exchange some messages with Jose Luis and that's it. I even made him laugh on whatsapp. I felt he already made my day. 

-also Pablo messaged, but i am now leaning towards jose luis. I'm happy how one can really replace someone and i can clearly see who is for me and not for me.

-reread my posts 13 years ago, and i am amazed how my tenacity for finding love still haven't fade. But hopefully this time around i eventually come home.

-this reminds me of Russ message to chai about coming back home (of them being reconciled)

-attempted to blog again. It feels wobbly and like doing baby steps.

At least not with the aid of chatgpt. Going back to square one. I felt im redeeming and re acquainting myself.

21/10

-i vividly dream of high school. The giddy thrill of walking along the corridors. The love for books. Highschool crushes. Laughing hard. Cheese sticks (pastel de leche). I felt I was beginning again in terms of romantic excitement and intimacy.

-done waning moon ritual before the new moon. Let go of strong anchors that reminds of Pablo (the condom we used) burn it and splash it with dust of palo salto and done sei hei ki emblem to it as i flush it away.. with it are the strong emotions from my previous heartbreaks and limiting beliefs i had. May i restart anew.

-at 10:21pm new moon, done my romantic intentions 

20/10

-blessed to have a mother, on her 67th birthday today, that she is still beautiful and healthy. Who was able to maintain a family, though not perfect, but filled with care and love.

-pablo messaged me and he was clear that he is not into LTR. I felt broken hearted. I really like him.

-also got a potential first meeting with Jose Luis. But my landlady came in and he also encountered a problem. Well, it is what it is. Let's see where this goes. 

19/10

-just rest

-cleanse, detox and watch this video about how to deal with loneliness:

How to fall in love again by alain de botton.

https://youtu.be/9PXHx275Oa8?si=bandxBRXUKy2Nhz6

18/10

-meet up with jose barrios and had a morning sex.

-messaged Pablo but he doesn't reply. The anxious attachment syndrome in me is triggered. Got a pnp invite and went ahead and met these 4 top guys. It's like singing tove lo's song once again. It was already past midnight, and I'm glad i did, it was worth it. Two of them are so hot and bigdick. It was a total fantasy. I was hi@# af. Mefe&keta. First time. But still it's nothing compared to my subs of choice. But i felt so lucky to have these two hot men (1 handsome Spanish and 1 super sexy latino) banging me like in a p@#n. I am aware of my tendencies so after it, i just be compassionate to myself.

17/10

-this blows me away today. I needed this kind of reminder to practice.. practice practice every day:

https://youtu.be/hwCmWqH6cCE?si=tmym3bIYLoGYwvdO

-catch up with Chai and had our realizations from 20's, 30's now to our 40's. One message that has instilled in me with our conversation is the "necessity of waiting", just like the seasons for planting and harvesting a fruit.

-Rewatched perfume, the story of the murderer. Was reminded of my sexual obssesions, collecting guys to intercourse with but at the end, it was really to satisfy the craving of having someone to be with.

16/10

-watched icelandic folklore the damned. Felt so scared and troubled i have to rewatch asako 1 and 2

-felt sad about Pablo not replying but i felt i know to handle and reinforce myself with this kind of feeling.

-here comes the autumn winter rain-the more i miss the tropical breeze.

15/10

-when it rains, it pours. I had a dry season lately but finally i had 3 guys last night. 1st is pablo, the tall guy, and the cd lover. Again, if only i have a bf, i will be faithful. But while i am still single, and my hormones are still at it, then i will try to maximize it. 

-but for me, my ultimate is Pablo (pls see ref) messaged him but I'm too sleepy to wait for his response about us having a walk.

14/10

-finally meet pablo. The one I've been talking with, for a long time.. I was so frustrated last night and I'm glad this one compensates. I was able to practice my massage and reiki with him. And i got so horny with his sexiness. He is actually my kind of guy. He looks better in person. And he has a huge d###. We are also able to talk great. If only he doesn't have limited time, i wish I could spend more time with him. He is hairy, cuddly and i love his armpits. I hope and pray he likes me the same.

13/10

-"i am not a mistake. I am the dream, i am the fantasy." Fostering self acceptance, Mother melai in sparks camp 3.

-went again to alacala for my dental appointment. It's a long journey so i listened to 1Q84 on the train. Also simply love my scenery. I love the field near Pitis where one can see families of deer.

-i kept on thinking about p.james and minelvaguy. I realized they are one of my greatest orgasms. That's why these times i tried to duplicate the same feeling, the same level.. I was reminded of the IQ84 excerpt of gone in the wind. "Once you experienced something magnificent, try to be content with it"

12/10

-went to alcala henarez town fiesta. I was able to enjoy the crowd and the food stalls with Joana Paola. Then we went to Sol and had a disco with Darwin, a kapwa Pinoy. She is a CD and reminds me of Maxie Bella. We had a great time in a disco club manama. I got a few stares and smiles but they are either with a bf or friends.

I overspent and had a bad hangover.

It's one of those nights i say i don't wanna drink again.

09-11/10

-having sexual frustrations lately. I am so horny but i don't get to meet people for sex since 1, my place is not always available 2, Collado Villalba is such a small town. 3, i don't get along well with my meet ups and we either not a match or our personality clashes.

-it's a long weekend for me so i simply enjoy it by rewatching a movie: kimi no na wa. It is still giving me goosebumps and i really love the idea of misubi.. the intertwining of time. It will always be one of my favorites.

-had a great talk with Maxie Bella and how we process John Mengua's passing. We also reminisce what we've been through with him and how we commemorate his memory by cherishing his kindness and joy he emits. May God bless his soul.

08/10

-sent a video greeting for XinXin's 6th bday. My baby nephews and nieces are growing. 

-done major cleaning in the house as my landlady will be back tomorrow. I felt relaxed and realized i have this jealousy and nagging envy about people in a relationship. I mean i could rewire my limiting beliefs that being solitary is sad and lonely but i couldn't deny my heart's desire for a constant companion and feeling kilig once again.

07/10

-Meet said once again. This time he fucked me bb. I just really find him so handsome. I came as we made love intensely. I also love his smell. That kind of spanish arabian smell. I hope we can do this regularly

-was also supposed to meet the airport Uber guy. But sleep is my priority since i have an early class tomorrow. i love it when i choose myself more than others.

06/10

-first monday at my new school. Getting familiar with the kids and their characters. I have this wonderful energy but I feel drained? Of which i usually feel my dopamine depleted? Good thing they have free breakfast. At home, i felt lethargic. I guess it's normal? I should be fine.

-got this immense restlessness in the middle of the night. And as if I've been punched in my stomach. I guess its the upcoming aris full moon with it's intensity 

-found this fruit and vegetable market that sells familiar stuff: papaya, mango, okra and guava. Feels and tastes like home.

-watched s/s fashion shows and one collection i love is Sarah Burton's givenchy.

05/10

-recently, i don't usually feel good. It's not automatic that i am feeling fine, as if there is a cloak of dark, damp cold clothes shrouding me. It's an effort to feel myself. I have to walk, prepare hot mocha or cook good food. But i always end up kind of lonely and sad. 

-Rewatched Jones spike's Her. And thread along the loneliness in this modern age. But still, i remain hopeful 

04/10

-Rewatched the tiger, first was when it premiered. The notion of being devoured by the tiger coincides with murakami's IQ84 putting a tiger in your tank. 

I let the tiger. Devours me this time.

-earlier, rewatched ang lee's brokeback mountain. I feel it more this time. Cried specially with Michelle Williams portrayal of a jealous woman. I resonate with her pain. That pain that scarred me just last april with minelvaguy.

03/10

-heading back to alcala for my dental appointment. It's early morning on the train from Collado Villalba. Seeing the sunrise across the endless fields. It was a beautiful sight. Also, i have this unusual auto joy in my heart. It's not pre empt-ed. It's sitting inside with me. It's a surprise since i constantly have this anxiety ridden jolt, or loneliness pang inside. But now, i am smiling with peace.

-meet Joana Paola and noel. Went to el prado and simply talked and laughed. It's a wonderful pinoy bonding and got inspired with Noel's pareja de hecho and lovelife.

02/10

-felt at home more and more as my landlady is with her partner and im able to take care of balu and santi and the myself 

-felt wonderful after my interview at "you speak" language academy with Isabel. Was tasked bout if someone asked the  difference with past simple and past perfect. I'm so happy to come up with my drawing of a man on a boat with an anchor. Ang galing ko don. Even i, was amazed by myself. I hope i will get the job and it will be my step for legal residence. Ojala🙏

01/10

-first day at school, CEIP de Miguel Cervantes and I've already received so many hugs and gifts

-bless my room with cinnamon and salt to bring forth abundance and love

-also bring out my rose quartz, string of pearls and my intentional love writing in the open for the upcoming super moon to bless it.

another attempt

my first flight heading to Europe, going to Spain was a day after Chai's bday. in a way it is memorable because it is anchored in one of my totems.

i really haven't blogged about it but i have journaled and i have written accounts as detailed as i can get. but in  my kind of blogging, i distilled what really the essence of it all. like trying to distil and capture 1 small bottle of the essential oil of a field worth of roses.

but i know this would take some time and reminiscing. i also feel like i already shared my truths to one of those phone calls i have with Chai, Russ and Vera, and the remnants of this story is the breadcrumbs of what it suppose to be. still, let this be, an attempt.

first, it's simply not a bed of roses. i got so much trials and obstacles. then it all pays off with an apartment in the old town and a walking distance to the sea with an amazing landlady.

i work as an assistant teacher with the coolest coordinator (and like a best buddy), Ignacio. I was given the liberty to handle all classes as i want it to be so i put my best foot forward and make the class as if my own. Every class is like a performance art, with some dance and singing.  for the first time and a long while. i am shining like a rockstar. made good connections and remarkable experience with my students and co teachers.

meeting my fellow pinoy auxilaires in Andalusia and finding a pinoy community.

then comes my sexual rendezvous, a way to find potentials, in the hope of finding the one who could also provide me papers and permit to stay in this foreign land. but in fact it was rooted with the idea of finding a home away from home. but it was not yet meant for me. Lucas, Ruben, and T(Gibraltar Guy) expresses their interest for me to stay but i need more than that. something feasible and something tangible.

being scammed and being not able to find extra job not because of limiting beliefs but because, i have no authority to work. i settled for minimal tutoring classes and i surrender and simply enjoy nothingness in the solitary shores and idle watchtowers.

Christmas with Vera and her family in Norway then Summer in Italy.

Then now. for my 2nd year, i'm here in Madrid. 

again, let's see how this goes.

p.s.

i didn't use chatgpt and this was created in less than an hour (though this may need editing and elaboration) but still, i feel ever so happy.

an attempt

done some lots of readings from my blog post in the past. and i cannot help but miss my old actual writing voice.

i want to re capture my usual writing voice. that primordial voice i have when i write and later read, know and acquaint with myself. as if having that kind of familiarity with a one of best friends' way of talking or let's say, kanang dagan sa iyang pangutok bah or in english idiom pa: usual train of thoughts. 

to be honest, my previous blog post: Ghost House in Manilva: Where My Lovers Sleep

was "assisted with chatgpt". don't get me wrong, it's still my reality. the facts are 100% real, it's just the wordings and the capacity doesn't equate to me, it's giving 1000.98% more. there is no sense of authenticity. i need to present my real me. as honest as i could be. it's like having my entry to be edited for a publication of which in the first place, i have this blog intended for myself and to my friends who really knows me. 

i did it because part of me was curious and part of me is lazy, or rusted on how to write a formal blog. i need to be at it again. put my ingredients and had it cooked by an AI. it taste well but most of myself doesn't seem to digest it. it's like having an affair with an AI (ref film HER) that i cannot simply acquire and i felt fake no matter how too good to be true it can get. that i have to edit it again and again, edit not to improve it but to edit it in a way i have to downgrade it to becoming raw and flawed, a writing from a real human.

recently, or i must say, it's been ages since i wrote a decent blog post. most of my posts here are journals, a quick recap on my daily realities. but writing a blog is something that gnaws on me like a cat--- rubbing its paws for petting. and i want to revive this kind of blogging when i write it straight on blogger. no wordpad for auto corrections. just spill it straight.

so let's see how this goes.

09/2025

30/09

-woke up really well and practiced to get up and never get back to bed.

-done morning walk and get familiar with the route going to school 

-hike towards Parque La Dehesa. This time, I'm no longer homeless. Gosh, I've gone through a lot of tough times.

-done waterfall shivasana position with thich nhat Hahn's going home to the body guided meditation:

https://youtu.be/WzgJsLllDy4?si=dL_A4aOVncYItqhZ

I cried. overwhelmed with all the trials I've gone through and overcome.

-had my favorite pair of cafe doble con leche and croissant deliciouso in sampedro

-met this intern doctor near the church and supposedly just cuddled but we had sex. He looks like a rough version of Javier Bardem 

-update chicka with lyza and alex as they are settling in their town of assignments: murcia and Canary island

-felt exhausted and had a long nap

-watched and inspired with bea Padilla's karen davila interview and madonna with shetty:

"You're not the owner of the light, you are just managing the light"

"The worst things make out the best things in your life"

-what a great day to end the month of September 

29/09

-meet joana paola in henares as i get my remaining stuff. Dine at their balcony and had a wonderful catch up

-went back to Villalba and was welcomed by Esther and her daughters plus her Irish son in law. It was marvelous to be surrounded by English speaking peeps and i felt all my worries melted away (anxieties of being a new tenant co living with the owner) they even shared their wifi with me. Such a treat. I am so happy.

-watched Desert Heart (1985) and I was astounded with the screenplay. It is so smooth yet powerful. My fascination with lesbian movies is getting more intense.

-Back to back it with Yorgos' The favourite. I love how these slap to the face submissions speak so much volume in my current situation 

-i realized it's officially my 1st year here in Spain.

-done breathandflow sleep yoga for the first time in a long time. When was the last? In castel'azarra? Also my first time in my room here in Collado Villalba 

28/09

-rested and woke up well.

-msged uk chubuff guy but no response. i guess he is refraining from future hurt. He just let me know he is now at the airport heading back to the UK

-went back to madrid and head on the Esther's recommendation: CaixaForum. But before that i head to pum pum bakeshop for my usual coffee. I had my cappuccino with three shots. But i still end up dozing off with the art installation of sky watching. 

27/09

-chai's bday. Post her video of playing the rain drum. a bday and send off melody as I'm about to fly to Spain the day after. 

-meet this 27 year old arab guy (ref said.villalba) . Gosh he is so youthful and i love his manly scent. We made love in my room. And was able to suck all his cum, every drop of it. 

25-26/09

-i still found myself in lavapíes. It's a comfort place for me now. So i still eat in my favorite brasa gaucha grill for their 3 course lunch menu that includes steak and wine for only 18eur.

-went to the Prado museum. Aside from their usual collections, my top three would be Velasquez ' fragua de Vulcan with the guy 2nd to the right. the duke of Gandía with his leggings and already rotten wife and ultimately Goya's handsome and sexy model on the cross of which i kinda fell drawn to.

-i am able to grocery and just like Kiki (re watched: kiki's delivery service) all of my budget is diminishing away. But i was able to cook the meal that I wanted to and how I wanted it to be. The last time i felt this way was in Estepona. That was 3 months ago.

-i had the place to myself. Clean the house, water the plants and take care of my new two cat housemates, balu and santi. I felt peace and at home.

-went to las rosas and talked with jazel Kristen while on the phone. We are so engrossed with our chika that I missed my bus and got lost but managed and met this morboso guy who came inside me 3 times. He is huge and he eat my ass even after he fucked me. He is good. 

24/09

-last day in the hostel. Will be leaving Centro madrid for a while and go further north to Collado Villalba.

-slept well, dreamt episodes and woke up somewhere on the right side of the bed.

-went to my favorite coffee shop, pum pum bakeshop.

-had lunch with uk buff guy at Brasa Gaucha Grill Madrid. Nice outdoor sunny setting. Good value for the money food. And good conversation. It was lovely. 

Just found out his real name, Nic. I wish he could stay here in Madrid a bit longer. But he is going back to England this Sunday and then spending a year in Australia. He is half Romanian (or austrian) i jokingly he is like harry Potter, a half mogul. He laughed. Walked him to his Airbnb and have to set foot towards my new place in Collado Villalba. I grew fond of him but i guess that's all there is to it. 

-next chapter awaits.

23/09

-everything will be and should be fine. I keep on reminding myself. There's so much major shift specially with my housing in Collado Villalba but as always i am not in the position to complain. I will simply trust the universe and myself that i can go along with whatever changes presented to me.

-Feeling attached with uk chubuff guy. I thought we were going to see each other tonight but he had other plans. My sex addiction flaired up to mask the loneliness. Tried to bang with this hot latino guy in the shower room, who i thought was cruising because he strut nakedly outside the curtains of the shower room, but he ends up a homophobe and i almost get into trouble. Well at least i tried. 

22/09

-shocked with the temperature drop. From 40c yesterday afternoon to 8c this morning. I was shivering to death.

-goodbye summer and bello cold cold Autumn.

-meet Slobi, an upcoming aux who's also looking for a place in Collado Villalba. Had coffee and spent some time with him in retiro. We had a wonderful talk.

-meet uk chubuff guy once again and we had dinner and movie night in his airbnb. Was kind of saddened to know that he only has until Sunday here in madrid and he is moving to Australia. We had sex twice. Before dinner and after our 1st movie. We slept after our 2nd movie. It was a homey kind of bonding. 

21/09

-tried pnp after a long long time (after almost a year) with the chem of my preference. I just need it after so much stress about place hunting.

-got so much horny and i have wonderful sex specially this chubuff guy from the UK (see ref). We have sex and cuddle for hours.

-when it rains, it pours. Had one of my best sex with this hung guy from lavapies (ref lavapies dude). Felt a great connection with him as well. Hope to be his regular fuckbuddy here in Madrid 

-was inspired by Jessica sanchez. Simon reminds us that we can give up but we can keep on. Timing is everything.

-able to found and reserved a room in Collado Villalba. Met esther and her partner. I'm quite uncomfortable with the idea that i will be living with the owner. But what can I do. I'm running out of options, resources and time. I will simply submit and trust that i will be fine.

20/09

-im feeling the vibes of Madrid. It makes me feel like im on 20's again. With madonna confession on the dance floor on my earbuds. The road is my walkalator.

-walk back to retiro and have this awesome cruising with a french guy in the middle of a busy day. Swallowed his cum and he kissed me thanks afterwards. That was fun.

19/09

-visited el Retiro for the first time. I had my ears for the classical opera playlist. Most of the tracks are introduced by Russ ages ago, but it's just now that its hitting on me. I mean, i am in the middle of it all: Europe. 

And what better way to really immerse and feel it when I'm here mismo.

18/09

-started my new day felt regenerated. I am on my elements again. In the midst of this uncertainties and difficulties, my heart knows peace and how to retrieve it back.

-walk around the bellies of Madrid. The beauty and the ugly. And came across this bakeshop that i thought a hangover's pitstop. And i was mesmerized by their pastries, reminds me of turkish delights! Fresh and delectable even early in the morning. The place is quiant with oh i just woke up kind of vibes but once you had your pair of cappuccino and pistachio croissant, my innards are definitely fully wide awake.

-met joana paula and we dine en plaza mayor with an ongoing fashion show. My first time to reserve a table and first time to witness an intl fashion show ever! It's Carolina Herrera, although i wish its Alexander mcqueen or commes de garcons or maison margella but the show was totally marvelous.

17/09

-slept all day/night long

15-16/09

-i almost got robbed by this moroccan while i was eating along the park waterways in Collado Villalba. It's weird but instead of getting panicky i invited him to eat with me. And he was beyond grateful that he hugged and kissed me on the neck. Good thing he is handsome. i feel merciful towards him and i felt the reasons behind my self-pity is nothing compared to his situation. He definitely has to succumb to doing things because of his difficulties.

-my apartment hunt didn't go well and i can't go on without proper sleep so i went to Levapies and slept in a hostel.

14/09

-officially in Madrid. Started with a hot 28 year old hung arabian as we did it in terminal 1 CR. That was intense and hot. Now im ready to start my new chapter 🥵😅🤤

-reunite with Joana Paula (london school co tutor) in her town at alcala de henares. Coffee and walk along the old streets

-tried to figure out madrid railways and its confusing connections

-almost had a heart attack when i thought i rode the wrong train going to Léon. Good thing it stopped in Collado Villalba 

-my house hunting got postponed tomorrow, so i end up nowhere to stay

-didn't opt for hotels but i splurged on food. And went kafka-esque at their nature reserve park. Unknowingly the freezing cold won't allow me to sleep. It feels like a purple liquid ice freezing me to death. So i explore collado Villalba in the wee hours past midnight 

13/09

-last day in Milan and first day in Madrid.

-reminisce about the things i've gone through this summer in Italy and now felt a kind of steering for whatever waits for me in Madrid.

-said my goodbyes and thank yous to the zurzulo family RAfaele, Anna, Leticia, Davide and Simone. They are very sweet and i am very grateful for hosting me.

10-12/09

-as always, it feels ecstatic after the final show. This week also a blur and strangely felt tired and not so thrilled. My creative juices are dwindling but i guess I made a decent presentation. This is my last summer camp and i can do just as much. I badly need a break.

-rewatched ponyo with Simone. And went for gelato with him. There is so much joy in their hearts.

-received so many hugs and i felt empowered by my young students in Arcadia Feraboli.

-shed a lot of baggages. From 20 kilos to 7. I guess i really need to let go of my 10+ year old clothes and memorabilia.  

-Time to create new memories.

09/09

-watched spirited away with Davide. It reminds me of my childhood courage. 

-have a hard time sleeping. My Italian honeymoon for more than 3 months is about to end. Now i have to prepare for my new journey in Spain. All of a sudden i felt so much whirring inside me for my upcoming new life in Madrid this autumn.

07-08/09

-my host family doesn't go out as much as my other host family so i took the initiative to take out the kids to the nearby ruins (farms) and some adventures on the field

-saw the lunar eclipse with the kids, davide and simone

-went to the mother theresa chapel, it's one of the quietest place I've been to.

-Simply rest

06/09

-bond with Pitiglianhoes as we end our summer camp in the area. Later chika over coffee and gelato at a quaint paticeria with karl and olivia. 

-had a quick stop at Florence and simply got lost on the tracks as my train was delayed

-back in Milan after 3 months here in Italy

05/09

-i had my usual post presentation high. I really had a wonderful show about the legend of Castell'azarra and i received so much love from my kids.

-had a pizza party in la rossa dei venti from the families of my students.

-meet baby Shayn, the mother of Ariah who is a Filipina. She married an Italian. she told me her story and how she managed to be in Italy for 10 years. We really had a wonderful talk and i got inspired by her. She also brought me Filipino food. Lucky me pancit canton, Argentina corned beef and spam. Rice and mega sardines. I was teary eyed with joy. May God bless her and her family for this wonderful gift since i was craving for filipino food all these times 😅🤤

03-04/09

-following the resurgence of the stars, sent a follow request to Jack.

-i am compelled to say this, that before i usually stay in one place for 5 years and have a vacation once in a while. So every vacation is fully celebrated.

Now I feel like I'm on vacation in different places and different people, all the time. Instead of being celebratory, i felt solitary. So i miss having a stable permanent place. A constant home and a constant companion.

-now i just found out that i am a fan of lesbian films.. before i got weirded off with women following the BL series. Now i understand the fascination. I just love the vanilla slow burn king of love in contrast to my usual straight to the point sexually charged hunting.

-i am wanting to watch and finish a film 

But i always have little time after dinner. So this short YouTube video came across my feeds and this made me cry:

https://youtu.be/c-5Quo5Q3eI?si=pfwIMscuCK3sJsnk

02/09

-walk to the cemetery of castell'azarra and be reminded about how precious my remaining days are. Dedicated a song mio babino carro in exchange for a wish: to find my true love and spend many years together with peace, love and happiness.

01/09

-i thought i have blurred eyes when i enter my room here in castel'azarra, but it's actually fog creeping in.

-had my first day on my 8th week summer camp and they are relatively small but adorable 

-phone call with kaye, olivia and Karl and we rummage for today's work. I still can't go over with diamond's eccentric persona specially with her wearing shades in the middle of the night, so olivia and kaye were right, she has a world of her own. 

-also talk about this Neil, who all of a sudden messaged me in WhatsApp. Asked Olivia why he asked my number from her, she said he had a crush on me. Let's see how this goes 

08/2025

31/08

-im being hosted by the Capelli family in castel'azarra

-went for a hike going to the grotta. And walk along the quaint little town on top of the mountain 

-had lunch with cristina and her family. Beautiful meal with a beautiful garden. Wonderful talk as well with her grandma aged 93 years old. With her mom doing the cooking, I've never eaten so much for a long time. Done research about the Aldobrandeschi brothers for my skit this coming Friday. As i want something different this time, i want to veer away from the usual canned Disney plots so i really hope this will recover the town's history and they can connect to it.

-went to sarrabani town fiesta with cristina, giulia and Claudia with their family.. my students family this coming week. A wonderful way to connect with them. I was treated with good food and drinks and how fun this little town can be (puppet show, games, dances, and tambola a kind of bingo game) i am close to winning 500 euros! What a weekend to start my 8th week for this summer camp here in Italy.

30/08

-went to a bday party by the farm with the Chini family. It's Ilaria's father's bday. With her side. Me and Thomas talk about the farm that came into and how it can lead to agri-gastronomical tourism. It gave me an idea for my future hostel and the community i can build in bantayan island.

-send off by the Chini's and got really touched by their awesome hospitality and warmth. Got emotional on the train.

-meet Olivia and mhenard going to Bologna. Talked about the camp and the need for group insurance.

-dinner with the camp counselors in Pitigliano. Had a steak and a wine. A wonderful convo with kaye (fellow Filipina) and the other gang. Just wonderful 

29/08

-Finally had our final presentation and it went really well. I had it as: finding happiness, Tinkerbell's search for the real meaning of happiness.

Mattia my director was my Tinkerbell and he is really good. My first time to promote inclusivity in the production. And my whole cast was marvelous. Me and my co tutors, volunteers and andrea went for a drink and we were ecstatic.

-me and my host family went to the lake and found this huge sculpture made of some sort of drift woods.

-had a hard time sleeping. I'm having this so much oxytocin release of how amazing my life has been and i am glad i didn't really slave myself to the corporate world as it is not really the life for me. Life is so good.

28/08

-michelle and her host family came over the house and we had dinner at the house. Nice food and overflowing prosecco. I wonder how much prosecco I have had since i came here in Italy. 

As always we had this wonderful conversation and a really nice connection. Fun

27/08

-had a walk to the due lagi.. finally some "me" time. No hooking up with someone but at least I'm with myself. 

-had my spontaneous gift for Ilaria with her sons, Nicolas and the youngest, Alessio. Ilaria then showed their family album. Found out that their house was purchased/renovated (while giving birth to Alessio) in 2018 , i laughed at myself, as that year, i am just fixing myself.

24-26/08

-attended festa de volta (feast of the vault) and able to experience the best of traditional Cordero's food and spirits. First time to experience deer meat, garapa and pampalalino (the version of extreme sambuca) I was so drunk and had so much fun. Imagine having hardcore culture and gastronomic adventures

-went hiking in san bernardo with the Chini family and also had a free grunge concert with Thomas and his friends. Really cool people. 

-meet Michelle, another camp counselor for a different town. She is from California. Her big sunny character reminds me of ms Jiggy. 

I realized, based on my experiences, Californians and New Yorkers have these main character syndromes. But I'm always fond of them.

Although i prefer those from other states, they are simply more grounded and humble.

-surprisingly, i am enjoying my new colleagues in the city camp. They are so much fun to work with.

-find our coordinator, Andrea adorable. He treated me a coffee, casually held his hand and hugged him. I can't help feeling kilig for sure. But i know this is just another fleeting moment.. sighers..

23/08

-meet mariano, Giada's cousin, who has written the account of castel Balezi. Had a one on one talk with him and marvel the history of the castle, the German family who once owned it alongside with the political and geographical landscape from 1700s to present 

-catch up with chai. Her new found friend, sid lucero. And me with the community i get along with.

-sebastian's bday. Dinner with Giada, Francisco, seba and Martin. Got a tight hug from them. 

-was supposed to meet Giacomo but our sched is not in favor of us. He left a voice message with his usual British accent encouraging me to go to these places: 

San romedeo sanctuary 

Valdenona

Thun castle

-arrived in Taio and met the Chini family. Thomas and Ilaria with their children. 

-Festa di Voilta/vault in Coredo

Tried deer meat for the first time. Strudel and pampolino. Crazy first night.

21-22/08

-this summer city camp was a blur. So much happening and our camp director wasn't easy to deal with. Hopefully, we can manage a good presentation.

--immerse into the real culture here in campodenno which is really about farm life. Trekking to the mountains and lakes. Simple gatherings during birthdays. The quiet but full of action kind of life makes me at ease.

-i still can't get over with the beauty of Italy. It really feels right.

20/08

-finally meet giacomo. He is a huge (6'2) handsome chubby guy. We had sex by the apple trees. We drove around after sex. We had a good conversation while passing castles, grape vineyards, and whimsical mountains. I had a great time with him and his English is very British. Ahaha he is funny as well 😅 

19/08

-went inside basilva castle and went into a different dimension of events and art exhibitions

18/08

-day dreaming of Jack is like guided meditation for what it feels like for home.

-as always, i still want some physical intimacy. Been writing this Italian guy named Giacomo.

-great first day with kate even if simon wasn't able to make it due to an accident.

-met Davide. He is tall, handsome and balding. But he is still cute. But i guess he is straight 😅

-went for a walk. All alone. Finally some "me" time.

16-17/08

-there's so much going on, been processing things while new things coming along

-travel from rome to Verona then to Mezzocorona then to Campodenno 

-meet my new host family: Giada, Francisco, Sebastian and Martin 

-went hiking to a lake around an hour drive from campodenno 

14-15/08

Roam around rome

Finally visited the basilica and saw the pope for the 1st time 

..Expound ..

-met this couple, the other one is hot and my type but they got some issues with his partner. I end up with the one with a huge dick.

13/08

-got emotional with my leaving. It's been a month on the farm, and i was amazed how i am able to survive and appreciate it. Even if it's not on the subscription, it's more than i expected it to be. It's one of the most amazing learning experiences I've had.

-arrived in rome

-i had so much energy i was able to reach the following renowned archeological sites:

*Basilica magorie

*Colosseum 

*Temple of ceasar

*Pantheon

*Spanish steps

-met this guy who happened to be a DJ. He is high. He wanted me to smoke with him but said no.

12/08

-my first and last yoga. It's with Liz, a British yogi teacher who got her learnings from India. 

*Shivasana grounding meditation (30 mins)

*Sun Salutations 30

*Tree pose, tree hug

*Yoga Block works

*Gratitude meditation 

It's one of the best sessions I've ever had especially since my companions have to go in the middle, so i had one on one sessions with her until the end. As a token of gratitude, I gave her my signature body works.

-during my gratitude meditation, the scenes from staying in "Italy farm stay" splash through me. The laughters, My learnings, and the people around me. Thank you so much 

11/08

-had a great massage from Michael, the greek resident masseur.

-having the best meal, the best stay, i just cannot complain. Even if i lost 25 eur over unusable tickets (mercury retrograde emails from Gordana) but it's all nothing compared to all the savings and experiences I've been through.

-Went to Sora old town. It's one of those random walks that you decide not to bring your cellphone. I was amazed with the beauty of the old streets, houses by the cliff and the church by the mountains. There's also a chapel up there that is used for cruising since i see a lot of used condoms. It is true, in Italy, anyone can have sex anywhere.

-felt renewed. Feeling ready for my trip to Rome.

10/08

-lazy Sunday. 

-binge watch white lotus s3

-excited for verona, denno and Pitigliano as i will be assigned there this upcoming city camps

09/08

-done with the white lotus season 2. Loved it. It's especially shot here in Italy 

-went to sora old town and went up to the chiesa di santa maria delle grazia

-simply reminisce what I've been through this 1 month here in Sora since it's my final week.

-went to the museum and library and simply let my mind wander

-full moon, do moonlight bathing. Saw a shooting star and wished for Jack

08/08

-finally had a massage. It's been ages since i got it before I left the Philippines. I got it from rafa, the Brazilian volunteer. I feel renewed. 

07/08

-today is kinda uneventful. Although i have Gibraltarguy and ruben messaging me about how they miss me, I wish, it was jack.

-i really find signora's son really handsome, and the way he looks at me makes me conscious. But that's all there is to it. We haven't really conversed or anything. It's my last day doing the gardening before I leave for Verona next week, i am happy with my work. Oh well, i guess that's all there is to it.

06/08

-i felt everyday is an answered prayer. I remember i want to work in a different place every 6 months to travel. Now i am doing 6 different jobs in 3 months while traveling, making new friends, having good food and learning new things. Life is really full of wonder.

-i hope my next answered prayer will be: to live with the love of my life.

-3rd gardening session at Antonello's neighbor. Signora's son, is so handsome. I get conscious everytime he comes near. I like the way our eyes sparkle when we look at each other. Oh well, i will keep on waiting and hoping for the one..

-sat outside the orchard's clearing while i write my 2 day worth of journal. While basking on a bright moon. It's gonna be a full moon 3 days from now.

-since the "love meditation", i am thinking of Jack less and less. I don't know. Maybe i already offered my love for him to the universe and simply be the "love" i can be.

05/08

-massage Michael, one of the resident masseur in exchange for a massage treatment. I am glad he loves my technique.

-went to lago di posta fibreno for the 2nd time and finally had a swim in the cold freezing lake. Good thing the sun is so bright and warm. Had a joy ride with stefano's batman bmw car with paula, sarah, giulia and her pet, Vicky 

-went back to the gelato pasticirea siciliano. I Felt i went full circle, this time i am much grounded and secure. Thank you so much universe, I am now ready for my upcoming next adventure in Verona.

03-04/08

-having vivid dreams lately:

Of the old tower, the old clock. Catching an ancient flow of time, literally with hands of a leaf in a water flowing with the dial of an ancient wooden clock 

-of Julio showing me a viral video of 3 pop girls, which one is es em, my classmate in fine arts, i felt the love and kilig as we are still together

-done my first massage and reiki to Paula.

-done my first tantric yoga with astrid, my french colleague and rafa from brazil under Ana's guidance 

-i got so horny on the night after the tantric yoga and meditation. Now i understand why some participants engaged with sex after.

*Shiva shakti 

Shiva (masculine, awareness, vessel, death)

Shakti (feminine, creation, chaos)

02/08

-able to complete my Reiki certification. Now i feel legit and more capable

-watched a ghost story, the main character reminds me of Jack. And i resonate with ronie mara. I love the scene where she ate the whole pie while grieving. it kinda punched me in the stomach with sadness so i went for a walk to the mountain town of pescosolido

-watch sora town below me

-have a nice walk in the mountains under the bright moon

01/08

-continue with reiki sessions and this time we went into application: grounding, self application and to others. Cannot help but get emotional when I have mine since there are still traces of my hurt from manilvaguy. I'm relieved to have it released for complete healing.

-i have so many flashbacks and was able to appreciate what I've been through in Estepona and here in Italy. They are now sinking in and appreciate the beauty of it.

-JACK messaged me!!! I've been praying for it for so long and now it happened. I'm so happy! even if it's work related but he remembered me and hopefully he will sense how I've been praying and sending him love.

-earn extra 40 eur for gardening. I am so happy. 

-the meal from Paula was so good

-had my first fire ceremony:

It's been a while since i had a bonfire. The flame is so beautiful underneath a start filled sky. Plus the moon is half, as if showing a yin yang in the sky.

 *The history of the fire (the spirit of the fire is always alive)

 *There is no teacher but a catalyst 

  *Two sticks, one for death and one for life (death is something you wanna let go. And life is something you wanna live out) whisper and exhale through it, and offer it to the flame.

-antonello is really spiritually deep and ana's mantra and singing voice is healing.. then i let clemence do the drums since she is a musician, and i offer a fire dance offering. 

07/2025

31/07

-day dreaming about jack is getting non stop. Kissing him, smelling his armpits, cuddling with him all day and night. Just being with him forever, even if it's all in my head.

-2nd day with our Reiki session with Ana, a Romanian yogi and reiki teacher who got her learnings from a Japanese reiki master. plus the lineages of ancestral practices. Also they said Romanian women are known to be witches. I just couldn't believe this is all happening to me while i am here in the mountains of Italy 🥰

I have a french woman as my classmate, clemence. I could only wish I'm doing this with my tribe russ, vera, chai, and the rest of diwatitaz..   thinking of them with love..

-went to the yoga platform by the forest for the first time and hugged and shared energy with a spiritual tree.

-had some moment with this huge dog, whom i thought was gonna kill me. He is actually very loving and simply needs some petting. Gave him a massage and i could hear him sigh with relief afterwards. He is so adorable 🐶

30/07

-just had my proper reiki class with Ana from Romania here in Italy Farm Stay. It's definitely way more amazing than what i went through online. By instinct, she taught us about cleansing the left, right and center plexus. Which totally cleanses my jealousy, brokenness and sadness with manilvaguy. Now i am able to clear my channel and send my love light to Jack. I hope he will message me soon 🙏

28-29/07

-had this overwhelming joy that i am still alive after the terrible accident. Praying that it's the worst and nothing can be worse than that. Senior Giuseppe is also thankful as he said i saved him from the fall. Cheered on him and said: viviremo cento anni!

-living my life with purpose and passion.

-received a sponsorship for reiki certification from Angeli, our Indian guest from the UK. Sending her gratitude and will make sure to pay it forward by spreading the love with healing and well being.

-watched lion, 2016 film. Then searched for mancilang bantayan island in Google earth 

-had jack's photo on my side. I always have a smile with his goofy yet adorable looks. 

27/07

-i am inspired with aomame in 1Q84 when she already accepted her fate and how she prepares herself for her major task. Before and after. The endless solitary days inside her room, nothing but a cold metal of a gun.

-had a terrible accident while helping senior Giuseppe.  A water tank fell into my head. I'm lucky it didn't land on my face and the impact wasn't that much. I hope my wound will not get scarred. Cried because of the post trauma. Inform my mom and some friends about it. If i am a cat, it feels like 1 life has been deducted from my 9 lives.

-watched and finished white lotus season 1.

27/07

-feeling a little bit ok when i woke up. I guess all i have to do for now is wait: be patient and be hopeful.

26/07

-feeling exhausted lately.. also my social battery is totally drained. Isolate myself most of the time.

-take a bath in the rain and do yoga by the field. I tried to do a "breath of joy" but instead of feeling happy, i cried. I guess i am missing a lot of things, places, people: Estepona, folgaria, my friends in Andalusia, my co tutors, Jack, I'm still holding on.. i am grieving on letting them go.

-poured my energy in the kitchen with senior Giuseppe and Roberto. I felt my purpose. Learned making tomato sauce from scratch. Made tomato and cheese salad and other Italian vegetarian staples.

-in the night, i have this tremendous feeling of wasting another day without someone whom i could be in love with. Que pena. What a shame of not enjoying each other's beautiful and young body. Touching my toned vegetarian built body of which I could have shared with Jack and his firm bulging tummy. I dunno. Each night being lonely is terrible 

-i have Fiona apple's i want you to love me ringing on my head again and again just like the cicada's outside my tent 

25/07

-i am super kilig when jack mentioned and show me how he teaches what he has learned from my yoga morning sessions 🥰🙏💖

As always, i said to him: from my heart to yours, namaste 🙏 

23-24/07

-i always wake up with the idea of Jack. This time, I didn't snap out of it. Just let it linger on a sort of regular and daydreaming. I do still like him. 

-watched cinema paradiso. Wow. Now i understand why it is among the top 10 Italian films.

-went biking to Sora, the Dominican church (where i wish and prayed again for Jack) and to cascata di isola del Liri. I've never seen such regal falls ever before. A falls just beside a castle. Just like in fairy tales.

-loving my dynamics in Italy Farm Stay. I'm getting along well with Sr Giuseppe, Robert, Paula and all. 

21-22/07

-i always wonder why jack simply doesn't want to msge me. Mercury retrograde? I dunno. Simply let it go and choose myself, but still i cannot help but remember how i hugged him, had cheek to cheek as he brushes his side beard with the subtle waft of his cologne.

-got horny, met two middle eastern guys and had outdoor sex.

-watched cinema paradiso 

20/07

-i guess i made a new record. Walked 25 km from Atina to Sora.

-woke up at Atina, there's no bus going back to Sora. No choice but to walk from 5am and make it back at 2pm. I slept in between though since i haven't slept well with Ali Awan.

-took the hi way since its like a short cut and sang mio babino carro under the tunnel on top my my falsetto operatic voice. was apprehended by the local policia. They got my details and even dial the radio. I don't understand what they are saying but my theory is if i am a on the run fugitive, once confirmed i have no records, they simply provide me a quick lift to the pedestrian lane and let me walk to Sora. I was ready to be deported but i am lucky they are very merciful. Pieta!

-last night with Ali made me realize I'm done with just pure sex. I miss having a good connection and someone who could really take care of me as much as I take care of him. Well, he is not the one for me.

19/07

-another day off. Bike myself to the old town and visited the old church (Maria Asunta)

-familiarize with the bus station and coincidentally see Paula and Lihi. We scream with excitement as we see each other. Had some cappuccino and cornetto with them.

-So i tried to take the back road and finally made it to sora.

-took the bus to Atina to meet Ali Awan. Let's see how this goes.

18/07

-i am getting the hang of the farm and enjoying my company with the volunteers 

-still missing jack. I wish him well.

-chat with this guy from Atina named Ali. We kind of click. We will meet tomorrow. I am excited.

17/07

-finally have my day off

-went for a trek to an unknown trail

-was in the middle of the woods and fearing i might get lost as I've been walking for more than an hour.

-was listening to the moulin rouge playlist as tamera posted something that according to my birth month, it is the movie that describes me. Listened to: "come what may" with jack in my mind.

Then I had a breakdown when i heard someday i will fly away from Nicole Kidman. Haven't cried this much. It's a wonderful release of all the pain, fantasies and ecstasies

-take a shower in the summer rain, when was the last time i did this? The wet earth reminds me of UP diliman

-continue with 1Q84 

-another lonely and long night. Reminding myself this is an answered prayer, a preparation and becoming.

16/07

-getting disoriented. I can no longer determine what day and time it is. 

-doing some mild construction work in the farm. I jokingly said to my colleagues that i need to experience this fair share of hard work since I've been a disney princess all my life. They all laughed.

14-15/07

-it's been two days since i arrived in the farm stay. eating nothing but fresh vegetables and fruits. I should be feeling healthy but i miss my usual dose of protein. And also, missing my usual dose of men. Most volunteers here are straight with the very least of tendencies. Plus the share of men and women is proportional so there is no chance for my healthy sexual appetite. So my mind wanders again with my previous sexcapades especially the ones i had in Estepona Spain. 

On peaceful days and on quiet nights, i also think of Jack. But i guess that's all there is to it. He is just one of those, wishful-thinkings, the could-have-been the one kind of fling

13/07

-met my first Roman guy. Finally after 1 month of no sex! He is 25, young, tall and hung. (See ref roman.1)

-able to reach Anagnina and finally Sora. Where the Italian farm stay located. It reminds me of a commune in murakami's Norwegian woods. Meet signor antonello and his dad, gisueppe then the rest of the guests and volunteers.

-operating in less than 2 hours of sleep, went on to the daily grind and went to the lake. It's as clear as Ophelia's death scene. Only if i can do that and surround myself with flowers and submerge myself from my sadness in missing Jack. 

But all i could do now is flow into the current.

12/07

-had our final presentation and all of us got emotional. Especially Filippo as he will be moving to Australia and he triggered us to be teary eyed.

-hugged Jack backstage and i said i will miss him, of which my heart says more: he is the person i will definitely miss the most. Simply feel his embrace and soft cheeks. He smells good too 🥰

Watched him sing the queen's bohemian rhapsody, got impressed and for some reason, a voice inside me whispered (just like jazelkristin to shogu when she first saw him): he is gonna be my husband.

-as always, i am very bad with good byes. But Filippo and Alegra came to me and hugged me as i burst into tears. Also ms. Cali, so i then said: it's not Good bye but see you.

-these are the list of the performances i facilitated with my groups:

 1 Mario

 2 Alice (swanee dee and swanee dum, ballet upstage)

 3 lion king , when i grow up (interpretative dancing)

 4 red hot fireballs (high school intramurals style)

-went from folgaria to Rovereto train station for my trip to Rome

11/07

-went for biking for the last time this year and hugged signor Sergio. He is definitely my favorite sports coach. Went to my spiritual tree and hugged it. Asking for more strength, wisdom and stability.

-also hugged Nadya (our dedicated waitress) and send her my blessings that soon she will also meet her love of her life.

-mentally and emotionally prepare myself for the end of the 1 month long summer camp in folgaria. Feeling low and my colleagues noticed it on the dining table. Confide Olivia and Geraldine that i have this separation anxiety and simply cannot fake it.

-Olivia and I really made a good team. She is one of the closest tutors I have next to Mario.

09-10/07

-full moon. Grabbed my duvet and went on the balcony. Feeling the 1Q84 season and listening to the audio book.

when the THC kicks in (hash, oral) plugged in to vespertine live. 

-went biking with senior Sergio and hugged a tree

-went hiking again with the campers with Filippo and Jack. This time jack and tamera went further until the "Cornetto" peak where we could see some Italian alps still with snow caps. Went to this refuge (an abandoned hotel) and got inside. The acoustic is so good i sang amapola and then unravel. 

-had this awkward yet kilig moment with jack in the jacuzzi as he jokingly shoo the other tutors as he wishes to only stay with me.

-later that day i had eye contact with Jack and simply acknowledged him. Also told him i am a bit sad as i will miss him, err miss them (all my colleagues and the place and the buffet) 😅 

08/07

-woke up fine. I thought i will be sick all day.

-dreamt of Jack standing nonchalantly as i leave. He appears vague and smokey but i know it is him. He got no reaction whatsoever. As i am getting far from him, he is just standing there as he fades away.  

Woke up sad. Maybe that's what this is. Just as i will be missing Jack, I am also having separation anxiety about this camp which is about to end. 1 month of staying in this hotel with my co-tutors and the hotel staff made me get attached and it feels like finding and building a new nest again.

-later the night, Jack asked me about my age and he simply said beautiful (i understood it as i age beautifully) when he found out.

07/07

-played murder game. I was able to murder Geraldine, but i was killed by kate as i badly needed a board marker. I realized that at times, what you need kills you. I hope we won't be killed because of needing love.

-still can't forget when i joined nicolas during his biking session. We pedal along beautiful fields and asked him what movie i am in, and he knows it right away: eat pray love 

-it rained and jack made this cute expression as he asked tamera not to have any footage as Gordana might get worried that the campers get sick

-felt sick at night. Maybe because of the pollen and the rain in the woods. And maybe, i over enjoyed it.

06/07

-sunday day off. Went for an early morning walk after early morning coffee by the fields.

-hugged my spirit tree in the middle of the forest

-got inside the monastery church near biancaneve and made a wish. Automatically my heart whispers Jack william Higgins

-went to the candle altar and send my prayers to anhing jon mengua. Can't help but cry. Same feeling when i cried for anhing ian cinco. They are just too young to pass away. Also send prayer to jon mengua to make lambing to the god almighty and may my wishes come true . 

-i had this kilig moment when i said to jack he reminds me of winnie the pooh as i poked his tummy. I am about to say i am piglet, but that might become too obvious that i really really like him.

05/07

-had a great performance with my group mates representing africa (lion king) with olivia (british tutor)

-really falling in love with jack. He is adorable and sexy for me. It's just that i wish we could talk or there's a way to find out if the feeling is mutual. 

-another end of the summer week for the campers (3rd batch). It's just my social battery is drained and i am bad with good byes.

04/07

-jon mengua's death. It really broke my heart. I thought he was recovering. Cried and lighted incense. 

-earlier, i felt the same sadness i had with manilvaguy. It was a revisit of how grieving feels like.

01-03/07

-went busy for my 4th week in the summer camp in Italy 

-had a hash and shared it with mario in the fields late at night. We had some few songs and run across the field. It was a beautiful moment.

-kind of not seeing jack as much as i can. But when i see him, i really find him handsome and adorable. I wish i can kiss him. But i know it's quite vague but who knows, it is possible.

-just enjoying the beauty of folgaria, the walks, biking, the pool, outdoor jacuzzi and loving the food.

-my allergies are calming down but still having this summer allergy symptoms

-had the night walk again, was with jack but there are just so many students to deal with. I freshen myself up for nothing.. lols.. i thought i could talk or hug him in the dark..

06/2025

29-30/06

-tried mountain biking in folgaria and it always feels like flying. The bike lane in the forest is so magical. Even received a simple pine branch as a laurel award for completing the course 

-had a great moment with the new batch of tutors. 

-felt energetic even after our night events. Had a kilig moment again with mr. Jack when we kinda look at each other and he dances with me during the karaoke night (baby, j. biever)

He is following my dance and we kind of vibe with each other.

-also felt kilig when mr. Jack called my attention as he wanted me to hire me as a choreographer the opening part of our show. I jokingly told him as well if he wanted to hire me as a masseur (so I could touch his body 😅)

-tried the jacuzzi once again (after a long time of having extreme allergies) it so happened jack is also there so 8 was able to kind of touched him accidentally in the water.

26-28/06

-days passed by so fast this week's camp. I made a twist on Alice in wonderland 's tweedle Dee and tweedle dum as swannee dee and swannee dum as white and black swan and made them dance to the swan lake. I thought it was so brilliant.

-after the show there is such a bittersweet feeling in seeing an empty stage.

-hugged my students as they cried saying goodbye. Especially Gabriel who keeps on saying I'm the best tutor ever. It breaks my heart with pride.

-had my nature walk and as usual had 

25/06

-went for a trek and finally made it to the summit (last time was only at the Italian flag) it's really a nice view specially on those ghibli-esque rolling hills.

-jack cheered me as i made it and i naturally hugged him for that. I felt his large tummy pressing on me and his light scent. Was super kilig but i cannot show it to the rest of the campers.

-called russ as i just need to blurt out this lethargy with too much good places, good food, good experiences. Was reminded that i am in a place of not wanting anything because it is already happening.

-i am having this massive skin allergy on my neck and especially my face, to the extent i almost cannot open my eyes. But i guess i'll get through this. I shared this joke with Filippo: "how can you face your problem if your problem is your face" he laughed so hard.

24/06

-had a wonderful talk with russ and vera and talked about how jack reprimanded me about bringing up the conflict between iran and israel as i send my prayers with the children on a gratitude circle. As Jack reminds me that they are too little. I am just used to handling high school students. He got a point and promised not to do it again.

-was excited with my production as i am dealing with this on my own this time. It is a twist of tweedle Dee and tweedle dum as i turned them into black and white swan.

-found Filippo's musky scent is super sexy so i fantasize about him during my nap.. gosh i am sexually starving in this summer camp by the mountains 

-lovere.guy just messaged again and i wish i could stay with him for three weeks if jack and i won't make it until the end of summer camp.

23/06

-i just don't know how to feel anymore. I just give up going through with jack. If there is no clear communication from him, I won't lift a finger.

-but i find him really cute and since i can no longer take it anymore (it's been more than 2 weeks since my last sex) fantasize making love with him. Kissing him while riding on his cock and jerked off.

22/06

-one of the most tiring batches for the summer camp. Or maybe because there are too many of them compared to last week. Plus there is this co teacher who acts way too much but she seems pretty good in handling kids. But as i envision, you can only hold the torch long enough, you also have to pass it on.

-also there is this co teacher i got been close to and his name is Mario, he is half American and half italian. He also read murakami and we definitely got along well. And I was surprised when he said he could be my anchor.

-nothing special with jack nor with Filippo. Jack talked with me about work related. I thought he could have talked about something special.. lols.. but Filipo showed some cool tricks with this wooden toy, and found it adorable.. but everyone is tired.

-i felt drained. But as always, wonderful.

21/06

-still drunk, i submerged my head into the water fountain, deym it feels so good

-and just like throwing Arturo's key holder into the pond, i throw a coin into the water fountain and played "sweet disposition", i cried so hard

-still drunk, i danced

-i am missing jack. He said he wanted to talk to me (work related) but it might wait until tomorrow. I wish he could talk to me about his feelings for me if there is "some"

-still drunk, i tried sleeping outside our hotel's balcony but eventually went inside when it turns too cold

21/06

-finally had our performance day and i would say we had a great show.

-talked with russ and jazel kristin for the summer solstice virtual get together 

-gave them a heart warming message after performance 

-finally able to hug jack when i thanked him for his support.

-day off so i just need to have a break from the noises and my co workers faces

-had two shots of whisky while looking at random people in the rain at the town center of folgaria 

-was so drunk i went to the cemetery in the middle of the night, braved myself to get inside and sang amapola

-to be cont

19-20/06

-jack is getting guapo and guapo to my sight everyday. And I can't help but get kilig whenever he gets to talk to me. Especially on the dining table, when he is in the jacuzzi, on the night trekking and on the field. He looks like a handsome kung fu panda on the flesh.

-so i tried asking my colleagues if they thought Jack was straight or not. Most of them said jack is straight. So i don't want to keep my hopes high.

-they also find Filippo more straight, although I feel weak on my knees when i see and feel his body hair against mine. Plus i love to smell his natural Italian musky scent.

-our final presentation is getting closer and closer. I can feel my class getting emotional and i can sense that they definitely miss each other's companions.

18/06

-got the worst prickly heat and upper back ache. I cannot sleep even though i was so tired from the hiking

-we had our hike earlier. It was a beautiful walk with all the summer flowers. The slopes and the rolling mountains were captivating.

-i find jack adorable with the kids and he is indeed guapo. Way guapo from his picture on his presentation profile. With no contacts and rendezvous from the outside world, i am slowly getting to like him more day after day 

-saw jack in the jacuzzi from my balcony, he is so sexy. I like his hairy chest and armpits even from afar. 

17/06

-had my 2nd group for my yoga session and 2 of my participants were crying when i asked them what comes into their mind in the middle of the practice. We found out that one of the student's grandparent just passed away. I was worried as i might have triggered something but i guess it's also good for her to release and process the emotions she's been carrying.

-had my night off, so it's my first time to walk around and see the town outside the biancaneve hotel. It's charming for a sleepy town. I also like their cemetery of which reminds of the one i saw in Norway which is right beside the church.

-had a long and lengthy walk/talk with mari, my fellow teacher who is also from cebu. We also had some drinks and dessert in the pueblo centro. I'm so happy to speak bisaya with someone in a flesh.

-made a wish a random wish at 22:22 and it's weird as i saw jack flashed on my mind.

16/06

-i was so immersed with my Italian summer camp that i didn't notice my email from the auxmadrid. I registered beyond the 10 calendar days from the time they sent their email. I hope i can still make it for my renewal 

-im really having a good time with the summer camp in folgaria.

-had a quick videocall with chai, show her the resort surroundings in biancaneve, i and let her meet my students and jack

-finally tried the resort's jacuzi while drizzling. It was so magical. Reminds me of my moments in bantayan 

-initiated my first yoga session with a big group.

-talked with alegra, our Italian camp nurse and she opened up with her previous love affair with a german in Scotland 

-also talked with mario further, the half American half italian co teacher of mine. I also opened up with him how i am coping with my suppressed libido as this camp is totally far from city center 

-i really find Filippo so sexy but i am drawn to jack with his charm. And jack is definitely my ultimate dream guy, tall and a bit chubby. Jack is also showing some kind of sweet gestures. Like sharing his meal when i missed mine, sharing his wine with sparkling water (he said it is blasphemous) but it tasted wonderful. Sexually deprived, now i just keep on fantasizing about jack's armpits and how i can cuddle with him all night 

-but i am not sure if Filippo nor jack are straight or not. As always my gaydar is faulty. I even asked my co teacher, katie and she said filippo is definitely straight and jack as a goofy teacher.

-i dunno, but i totally admire jack's charm with the kids and i am learning a lot from him.

15/06

-so the camp in folgaria continues and fine i admit, i find the camp coordinator so cute. We had this moment when we rehearsed for the dancing and when we touched, our bodies sent shivers through my spine. He also has this swag in him which is very Julio (my ex) i dunno how to describe it but it's guttural.

-but earlier, i also met Filippo. The Italian teacher. He is the ultimate geek Italian summer guy for me. Also cute and all. I dunno.. jack and filippo have been doing this for so long together. I'm not sure if there might even be something happening between them but I don't want my whole imagination to get ahead of me. So let's just leave it as it is for now and let's see where this goes.

-as usual, the food and the entire place is just beautiful 

14/06

-had to bid farewell to my host, Franini 

Family for now.. i am so lucky to have them.

-finally arrived in Rovereto and went straight to biancaneve. Had a wonderful dinner with gordana and the team.

-finally seen jack our coordinator from Australia in the flesh and in the fats. He is chubby in a cute way. I wonder if he is straight or not. Or already have a partner. But I definitely find him adorable and cute. The Winnie the pooh kind of guy. 

-i had two wines, and as always it's an absolute pleasure to have Italian wine. 

-i had a hard time sleeping, and its already 3:03 am, went to the balcony and saw the moon above the Italian alpines. There are two of them, literally. I guess this is the same two moons aomame in 1Q84 is seeing.

13/06

-had our london school day at the cinema production. It was a blast. I will definitely miss the entire students and committee

-had an amazing candle lit sex with lovere.guy gosh, it was love making and bed time cuddling.. and we had a 2nd round. I wish we could have this for a long period of time. But i am moving out of lovere tomorrow. Well, as they say, let's enjoy the present moment

-walking down the beautiful mountain village, as i admire looking at the sparkling lake of lovere. I really had a great week here and i will definitely go back

12/06

-woke up around 4am and there was the moon, just gazing at me and taking care of my crystals with my intentions.

-dance gloria, gloria and some bachata dance routine with my co teachers and the locals at the porto23 lovere after pizza and wine.. crazy night.. 🥰

11/06

-strawberry full moon. Wrote a wish

-day 5 in lovere. Felt super tired for some reason 

-just rest and do nothing 

-had a good sirloin steak and good wine.. gosh i am being spoied by my host family 

-tried to look for the full moon, but put my love crystals by the window so it will amplify once it appears and im already asleep 

10/06

-ufff, just had my first sex here in italy.. (pls see ref rovero.guy) although technically he is my second italian guy (my first was a visitor in manila). I felt so lucky as he is so handsome and sexy. Finally "nadiligan".. i thought I won't be having any sex for a very long time 😅😅😅

09/06

-1st day in summer camp in revero italy. I didn't expect I could still take care and have fun with children. As I mentioned with Grazia over dinner, as if not riding a bike for a long time but once you mount on it, you'll definitely get on there.

-able to walk along rovero coast and the old town. It is very charming and beautiful. Now it makes me miss Estepona.

08/06

-went to the small town of Iseo with its charming old church and vibrant promenades along the lake.

-also went to brescia to pick Lorenzo where went to the old plaza and the UNESCO roman theater ruins. 

-performed mio babino caro to little Sophia as i gave her my gift: the spanish fan

07/06

-visited duomo 

-went to lovere.

-meet my host family: Alessio, Grazia and their daughter Sophia and cat Eddie. Tomorrow i will meet their son, Lorenzo of which will be my student for the summer camp 

-i had a wonderful room with a million dollar view of Loungolago de lovere

-meet Editta our coordinator and my fellow tutors 

-had the best gelato, pizza and wine!!!!

06/06

-finally manilvaguy reads my response and i felt freer when i also provided him some proper closure.

-made it on time at the airport and had

My flight to Italy. While up in the sky, a little child is staring at me. So intensely while im listening to history of toyches and lionsong from bjork's vulnicura live. As if a message from the universe for what is manilvaguy is feeling, the baby whales out crying as if the child become a router for that emotional release from someone i need to witness and feel..the baby cried for a very long time, and it made me cry as well behind my shades.

-arrived in bergamo Italy and got lost in milan central station. Both from its beauty and complexities.

-meet simon, a german who also wish to proceed to become a teacher as well. Had a wonderful bonding with him over beer and pasta. We really had a good connection. What a happenstance.

05/06

-had my early morning walk at my favorite shore while listening to maria callas 

-upon seeing my favorite shore and knowing its my last day here at costa del sol, played bjork's homogenic (live version) as this album was created along this very shore and this was the player when i came first here in Spain. It was a marvelous farewell morning 

-also dedicated bachelorette to manilva guy while looking at manilva/sabanillas shore from my i am sitting from:

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-meet Luca and had our farewell love making. It breaks my heart seeing his handsome face got sad when he confirmed i am really leaving tomorrow. 

-then went to costa natura nudist beach by the afternoon to have my last skinny dipping

-had dinner and some drinks with Ignacio, Isa and Maria as i gave my parting gifts with my personalized dedication.

-meet Ruben for the last time as well and had an intense wild fuck as i came while he is fucking me. As usual our fuck lasted for more than an hour and every penetration is considered all the weeks and months we might not able to see again. Indeed he one of the best sex ever.

04/06

-cordoba trip

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-gib.guy, park.. one of the most beautiful outdoor fun. Moonlit and beautiful parque de calvario.. we talk after the sex like lifelong lovers. I felt i am belong to someone special for a night 

03/06

-a morning read:

http://youtube.com/post/Ugkx589SW_51LHsy34wq1mpIWw1L34s9JENc?si=PFCDQcn0XJaZRdwn

02/06

-maria Callas ' mio Babino caro keep on playing on my head, after i watched Luca and Angelina jolie's portrayal of Maria.

-i am fascinated with maria callas. It reminds me of Russ' mdme Binayaan of which one of his butuh performance music is from madam butterfly.

-now, maria callas resonates with me since her song is out of pain and abandonment. Of sadness and Of a broken heart. As she said in her interview, most beautiful songs are not made out of happiness but with pain and sadness 

-need to brush off my depression and clean the house and do some impake. I need to move on, from Estepona to italy then to madrid . from this depression and this town. Emotionally, physically and yes, literally..

01/06

-3rd day, depression, and i really need to get out of my room, go for a walk and have some grounding. 

That almost 1 year building a connection and 2 weeks worth of final highs from my students then a sudden end really hit me.

On the 3rd day, I have to let my body rise again. As if it rose from death. Maybe, just maybe, i took the bible too literally, maybe Jesus was super depressed and hid somewhere. And when the body, as if in homeostasis, automatically snap and tell itself, get up!

-on my way towards my favorite shore, I've noticed there are a bunch of seagulls hovering a certain spot. Certainly there are plenty of fishes. And guess what i've seen not from so far away?! Dolphins!!!

Saw several of them flying above the surface. What a great day to start a month.

relapsing to: moving on

Manilvaguy msge once again. His 3rd attempt to create a new profile, got near my place and send this msge. 

But it's too late, i already made a decision not to stay here in Estepona. simply told him what i need to tell him in that way, he might also need a proper closure even how fearful avoidant he is. I just simply need to find peace.

It coincide with this readings, of which i consider as my anchoring force.

random memories p4

Entry #31

01/06

-i remember meiaj/max, the one i met a few days before xmas of 12/2022

How i got crazy for him and moved on,  then eventually saw him crumble in front of me when he was the one who was in love (see entry 03/31/2024) . but that time, i don't feel the same way anymore. I can still remember him teary eyed when he asked me, "why do you have to start a new relationship, if you can try to save the last one?" 

I am very determined that if i moved on, i totally moved on. And i don't see the point in getting back to the pain I've been through. I dunno. But his message haunts me until this time. But again, it happened for a reason. 

If i tried getting back to him or pursued him, I couldn't have pushed for my European journey. I couldn't have done what i love and dream of. 

No regrets

Entry #30 

25/05

-going through with my heartbreak with manilvaguy, as i blocked him. It reminds me of someone who i think blocked me because he is deeply in love with me as well. 

It was kevin who was working in cebu but he was originally from batangas. I liked him, amiable, sweet, above average looks and he is tall. We were dating and have regular sex but at that point in time, i was worried about his STD status and was asking him when he got angry and I, was also hoping he would run towards me but he ran away from me. Then he blocked me. Am i rude at that time? I dunno. I wish we had the chance to clarify on it but he simply ran away. 

One time, as i was celebrating sinulog with Max in Cebu, our paths met again but he was still hurting and didn't have the strength to talk to me. Or me, don't have the guts to tell him, I've been searching for him and looking at the building where he works (casino near fuente) every time I pass by jones avenue. 

I can still remember his last text, which is: "you won't be able to find someone who will love you as i do"

Entry #29

14/05

-i am very close to my Ukrainian students. Most of them are very sensitive and intelligent and their English is good. So i usually get along well with them. It also reminds me of my roommate in a hostel in veranera in Estepona. Gosh how can i forget him. He is a mess (always drunk, waking up the whole hostel in the wee hours of dawn, peeing on his pants, hair everywhere after he shaves his head, he scours on my luggage for a pants without my permission because he have an interview, but instead of me getting angry or mortified i radiate compassion as i am aware of the Ukrainian conflicts and i guess he is also, like me, just trying to make it through as well. 

His favorite Spanish phrase is poco a poco.

I wonder where he is now.

Entry #28

10/05

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-when i was 8 or 9, when my brother (who is 5 years older than me) hurt me, i cannot hurt him back.. so i divert all my anger to what i possess, i smashed my beloved casio wrist watch, i cut the plants in my garden..

Now, i remember when I was hurt by someone, i usually kind of also hurt those who are around me.. so for example i am moving on from a heartbreak with manilvaguy guy for inviting a threesome. Now I have become cold with Ruben who simply raises up the idea of threesome. I dunno if there is a correlation but there this word damay damay.. i am inflicting the hurt that i once got

Entry # 27

09/05

-went to alcazaba in a middle of the night and found myself cruising there. I felt like a ghost in limbo. As i roam around and around to look for that perfect guy. Even after i met the french guy. It reminds me of what i usually do along the university avenue in UP dil.. or along riverbanks in marikina. In a moonlit dark night. A restless soul, in limbo, trying to feel alive again. Again and again and again.

Entry 26

27/04

-i found myself laughing at my own posts 11 years ago:

https://hotmug.blogspot.com/2014/?m=1&zx=a8fffcf61197325e

What a life i had and having.. like: oh wow... I am amused with my own thoughts. If i could physically see and hug my 30 year old self I would say, "you really are amazing."

-mantra for today:

Garbage in, garbage out

Out of sight, out of mind

20th day, moving on

-done vinyasa flow yoga

https://youtu.be/NZmPE0jQqpY?si=x1ttOqnu8G_IhLLS

Entry #25

26/04

-the last time i felt this way was with Arturo. Around 11 years ago.. i think it was june 2014. I am shaky about my work and finances, but i have all the time to cling on to someone to alleviate such difficult times.

Now with Manilvaguy. I guess, because i am unstable with my residency here in Spain, i am struggling as a new migrant. With less work load as a language assistant teacher, i have so much free time to dream and fantasize about him I need someone to divert all these problems with someone i feel at home to.

With my anxious attachment issue plus my childhood / betrayal trauma. It was a marvelous mix for a disastrous infatuation. Now i understand and see it clearly. 11 years have passed through, now i have 11 days for my 40th day to mourn. I will simply feel the pain and let it through.

Entry #24

25/04

-i found out that all this time, I've been an avoidant attachment.. but with Arturo and Manilvaguy, those people who make me love and hurt me the most, i become the anxious attachment.

It could have stemmed from my early childhood memories.. as my father is abroad and he's not there to see me grow. In fact my early memory of a male figure is this neighbor whom i consider to be lovable now (next boy neighbor 30ish daddy type) and provide me with gifts.. i remember him giving me 20 pesos xmas or bday gift.. i recall..

Then my mom, who lost my sister when i was only 1 year old.. i believe she was mourning so much on lossing her only girl even if me and my kuya also almost lost our lives due to measles.. she couldn't take care of me and i feel that i had an abandonment and my needs went far too short.

I am glad that im now in a stage where i can looked into my past traumas, it might come in late but atleast i've reached this far..

Read through: how to deal with anxious attachment:

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/how-to-fix-anxious-attachment-style